School Safety Planning
Ensuring school safety for your children while leaving an abusive relationship is crucial.
Here are some comprehensive tips to help protect your children and maintain their well—being:
Communication with the School
1. Inform the School: Let school administrators, teachers, and counsellors know about the situation. Provide them with any necessary details to help them understand the risks.
2. Designated Contact: Give the school a list of authorized individuals to pick up your children. Make sure they have current photos of these individuals.
3. Emergency Contacts: Update emergency contact information with the school, including trusted friends or family members who can step in if needed.
Legal Measures
4. Protection Orders: Obtain a protection order and provide a copy to the school. Ensure they understand its terms and the need for strict enforcement.
5. Custody Documents: Provide the school with copies of custody agreements or legal documents that specify who has the right to pick up your children.
School Safety Procedures
6. Pickup/Drop-off Changes: Work with the school to change pickup and drop-off routines. Use a different entrance or vary the times to avoid predictable patterns.
7. Code Word: Establish a code word with your children and the school staff that indicates if someone other than the usual person is picking them up.
Communication with Children
8. Safety Plan: Develop a safety plan with your children. Teach them what to do if they feel unsafe or if someone unexpected approaches them.
9. Emergency Contacts: Ensure your children know how to reach you or a trusted adult in case of an emergency.
School Safety Planning
10. Secure Records: Request that the school keep your contact information and children’s records confidential and limit who has access to this information.
11. Counseling Services: Use school counselling services to emotionally support your children. They may benefit from speaking with a professional about their experiences.
Additional Safety Measures
12. School Security: Discuss with the school any additional security measures they can implement, such as increased monitoring during school hours or having security personnel present.
13. Communication Devices: If age-appropriate, provide your children with a cell phone or other communication device to contact you if they feel unsafe.
Support Networks
14. Involve Trusted Individuals: Inform trusted friends, family members, and neighbours about the situation. They can help monitor your children and provide additional support.
15. Community Resources: Reach out to local domestic violence shelters and support groups. They can offer resources, advice, and assistance tailored to your situation.
By taking these steps, you can help create a safer environment for your children at school and provide them with the support they need during this challenging time.